Dukasaur wrote:Yeah, more and more people I used to know are dead. Still a minority at this point, but getting larger.
And, yeah, some that I kept planning to visit, and never got around to.
I know lots of people, and I use Facebook to keep up with some. We cannot keep up with all those we know, so cherish your Family and those Friends who are really special. And if I encounter someone I know, I try to spend Quality Time (as brief as it may be) with them to "catch up" and re-connect.
My mother is older and in declining health. She has lost nearly all friends her age; she is an introvert and chose not to engage much with many others. When I visit with her, she reminisces often, mostly about her children and my dead Dad. I try to get her to laugh as we reminisce; crying and being mournful for lost family and friends is easy for most, so Laughter is important, I think.
There are a few people I know, especially women with no children of their own, who KNOWS LOTS about LOTS of people. I am NOT one of those, but my memory is still good. So, I try to engage with persons in a meaningful way, recalling (what I consider to be) important details about them, especially their names and their family members and/or close friends.
I think too, it is important "exercise" one's brain, so I try to learn new things about what I teach (Chemistry, Physics, Science, Scripture, and Ethics/Philosophy). At the moment, learning the Krazy Kingdom map is a bit of a challenge. I am also calculating the weight of 1 cubic meter of water. (I computed the value AND confirmed it by using online resources a bit over 2,200 pounds, btw, if you want to know.)